Note: The Nave (worship area) was under construction due to carpet installation and we worshipped in the Parish Hall.
For
the last several years my prayers include this: “Help me to be vulnerable to
those who are angry or in pain.” I want you to know that the four of us who
attended our Diocese Convention these last two days, heard two Bishops demonstrate
their vulnerability. Our own Bishop Ed, and Bishop Robert Wright from the
Diocese of Atlanta both told personal stories of life changing experiences. Any
of you who have met Bishop Ed know that he’s a pretty buttoned down guy. Most
of the time you don’t know what he’s thinking or feeling. When he spoke at
Convention the entire room was still. You could tell he was speaking directly
from his heart, with complete vulnerability. And, you could tell how much he
wanted us to listen to him. Not listen because he was the bishop, but to listen
because he was another human being with a story to tell.
One
of the things Bishop Ed said was that our country is as divided right now as he
can remember. I saw heads nodding throughout the room. What I notice in
particular these days, is anger simmering in nearly every person I meet. I see
angry drivers in urban attack vehicles, excuse me, I mean Suburban Utility
Vehicles, coming up behind me, tailgating and then swooping around me as though
I shouldn’t be on the road. Then there are the angry people in the grocery,
pushing one another’s shopping carts aside so they can grab their groceries.
There are angry parents, slapping children when they engage in age appropriate
behavior as most children do. There are angry people in line at the fast food drive-through,
revving their car engines and drumming impatiently on their steering wheels.
I
wonder sometimes if people might become saints now simply because of their
endurance, their ability to last through contemporary life without getting
angry.
The
real saints though, are ordinary people made extraordinary by being vulnerable.
Listen
to what Jesus tell us in Luke’s Gospel about how to be a vulnerable saint; a
saint who is open to others:
· Love your enemies.
· Do good to those who hate you.
· Bless those who curse you.
· Pray for those who abuse you.
· If anyone strikes you on the cheek, give
them the other cheek too.
· If anyone takes away your coat, give
him or her your shirt too.
· Give to everyone who begs from you.
· If anyone takes away your goods, forget
trying to get them back.
· Do to others, as you would have them
do to you.
If Jesus appeared
right now, he might add a few things. How about these?
· When
you do to others, ask what they want
rather than assuming you know what
they want.
· Give
up forwarding inflammatory emails.
· Give
up hiding behind the anonymity of online comments.
· Give
up using Facebook and Twitter as forums for your anger.
· Give
up firing off an email or text when you disagree with someone.
· Talk
to people in person.
· Listen with an open heart and mind to what people
have to say.
· Feed
the good in yourself and others.
· Be
open and vulnerable.
· Honor
those who are open and vulnerable to you.
All of the things Jesus talks about are ways of being
vulnerable and open to others. Being vulnerable and open means living, really
living out our baptismal vows. In a few minutes we’ll reaffirm our baptismal
vows, as is appropriate for the Feast of All Saints.
None of us can live out our baptismal vows alone. We all
need people who are willing to help us live out our baptismal vows. I’m sure
each one of you has a wonderful story about someone who is a saint to you and
helps you live out your baptismal vows. So today, before we reaffirm our
baptismal vows, I invite you to do this. Think for a moment, who is it in your
life who does one or more of these things:
· Helps
you believe?
· Helps
you continue in the apostle’s teaching and fellowship?
· Helps
you persevere in resisting evil?
· Helps
you repent and return to God?
· Helps
you proclaim by word and example the Good News of Jesus?
· Helps
you seek and serve Christ in all persons?
· Helps
you love your neighbor as yourself?
· Helps
you strive for justice and peace among all people?
· Helps
you respect the dignity of every human being?
There
is someone who has helped you do one or more of these things. Who is it? What
happened? What did the person do or say? (I paused to give people time to remember.)
Since we’re in a semicircle today, it’s easy for each of you
to turn to the person next to you and tell him or her who that person is and
what happened, and what the person did or said. If you can’t think of someone
right now, you can still be vulnerable and open by really listening to the
other person’s story. I’d be willing to bet though, that each of you already has
a story to tell. So I invite you now to turn to the person next
to you and share that story. And, I invite you to listen to their story.
(I allowed 5-10 minutes. I gave 2-minute warning to wrap up stories.)
Thank you for being vulnerable with one another and listening
to each other’s stories. It’s through these stories of our saints that we build
our faith day-by-day, month-by-month, year-by-year, and life-by-life. We
increase our openness and vulnerability to others by the grace of God, the love
of Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit. We’re called to listen, learn, and
love, with the saints you named, and all the saints: past, present, and yet to
come. AMEN.
The Rev Nicolette Papanek
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