07 September 2016

Homily Thomas Clark Oden, Jr 27 August 2016

                            
Please note: I do not normally post homilies for burial services, weddings, or other special liturgies, respecting the wishes of relatives and friends to keep the thoughts expressed for the family and the gathered congregation. In this particular case I have the permission of the surviving spouse. I was also urged to post the homily by musician friends and colleagues attending the service or those whom I bored by asking more questions than they probably wished to answer about musical improvisation.

I believe I know what improvisation looks like in my own art, but I am not a musician, only an appreciator of music and musicians. My thanks to Clark's wife Jeanne, the grown children Clark helped raise, and his extended family, for the privilege of knowing him even a little, and for permission from Jeanne to post this homily.

"Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God; everyone who loves is born of God and knows God." ~ 1John 4:7


  John 6:37-40                   Thomas Clark Oden, Jr               27 August 2016
  Isaiah 25:6-9         
         Last night, in honor of Clark, I listened to Dave Brubeck. I thought about Jeanne telling me about Clark’s awakening to jazz when he heard Blue Rondo a la Turk. As I listened, I think I understood why jazz came together the way it did for Clark. And especially why Clark was passionate about Dave Brubeck’s jazz.
Brubeck’s music, and jazz in general, has an order and structure recognizable to the aficionado. It also has a richness and depth that we hear in our reading from the Prophet Isaiah where we are invited to a banquet of rich food and great wine. But, jazz, food, and wine always leave room for improvisation. Right there, I believe, is how Clark lived his life. Clark was a messenger for improvisational love.
Improvisation requires a deep knowledge of what the composer intended. That knowledge allows the musician freedom to improvise rhythms and tempos that echo the composer’s work, and to add, enhance, and expand. The additions, enhancements, and expansions are not there to make a better piece of music, but a piece of music that slowly unfolds further and deeper and embeds itself in the heart of the listener. Improvisation honors both the roots of the composer and the shoots of the improviser.
You’ve heard members of Clark’s family tell stories about him, and the common theme in those and all the others I heard was Clark’s great gift at improvisation. Whether it was digesting his father’s theology and making it more concise and accessible, or praising his beloved mother-in-law for her care of their children, or re-engineering something to be better or louder or more efficient, that was Clark’s way in this world. A messenger for improvisation: A guy who couldn’t resist tinkering with what he was handed. Clark was a partner with God in making God’s dream for him come into being.
The Gospel reading we heard today is Jesus’ improvisation on how we come to believe. We begin with the knowledge that God never lets us go, even in those times when we are unsure of God’s very existence. We can believe this because if everything God gives Jesus comes to him, and no one is ever driven away, then all our life is a continual improvisation on that theme. We may think we are moving farther or closer to God, but we are always enfolded in that loving rhythm no matter where God’s music takes us.
In marrying Jeanne and finding himself with not only Jeanne but the gift of three children, Clark’s improvisational skills gave him the wisdom and strength to be a father who provided the underlying structure but also the ability to bring out the best in each child in in the unique ways each was created. For Clark, that improvisational skill extended to forgiveness as well. He knew some times it takes longer to forgive than at other times, yet forgiveness was another tune to improvise. After a wonderful wedding anniversary dinner, Clark wrote to Amy, “…the point is we all have to forgive, and be forgiven. It’s part of living a free life. I certainly have had to be forgiven many times, and I’m far better off having been forgiven, than I would’ve been had those that forgave me refused to do so.”
If you want to know to whom Clark credited his strength and wisdom to lead his improvisational life, all you have to do is read what he wrote to Jeanne as he proposed marriage. “I truly believe we were meant to be together, that God is behind our union and will bless out marriage.” The rest of what he wrote held both the underlying structure of what he believed and also the brilliance of his tinkering skill to build an improvisational relationship based on that core theme. Just like tracing his roots in Enid, he always went back to the core theme to mine it for its brilliance and power before he would improvise the rest.
None of us know what being enfolded by God will be like for us when we depart this life, but I like to imagine Clark like this. After he’s greeted into that great love that is God, he’ll look up Dave Brubeck. And he’ll tell him he’s figured out a way to re-engineer his instruments to sound even better as they accompany the angels in the Kingdom of Heaven.
Do you want to honor God’s wisdom and strength and improvise your life the way Thomas Clark Oden, Junior, improvised his life? Go back to your roots, pleasant or unpleasant as they may be. Be who you are. Honor what those roots have taught you. Improvise from those roots, always remembering the core music of your roots. Tinker with your life and figure out how to make it better. Be a good storyteller. Listen well to someone else’s story. Light a candle in the darkness. Help raise a child. Be someone’s structure when they need it. Be joyful when someone needs it. Spread love lavishly. Ask for forgiveness. Forgive yourself. Forgive someone else. Improvise! Improvise! Improvise! AMEN.

The Rev Nicolette Papanek
©2016

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